Below are links to my essays that have been featured on other sites:


I'm a featured blogger on Mamapedia Voices

Why I Hate Homework: It's Not What You Think
September 3, 2015

A Recipe For Parenting Disaster
September 16, 2015

What Does Time Passing Smell Like?
November 18, 2015

When You Give Me the World
February 26, 2016

Son, This is Really Why I'm Angry
May 21, 2016

Have I Failed My Child This Summer?
July 21, 2016

Is It Strange That I'm This In Love With My Child?
September 28, 2016

My Personal Momsanity Scale
October 26, 2016

Parenting Behind the Scenes
February 27, 2017

April 22, 2017

How to Say No When Your Child Asks for a Fidget Spinner
May 28, 2017

Featured on


To The Suicidal Stroller Moms Who Think They Own Our Subdivision
May 24, 2012

What Soccer Camp Taught Me
July 18, 2012


Yes, I'm Asian...But I'm A Scorpio Too
December 23, 2013


Don't Be A Social Media One-Upper
January 16, 2014

I Was Once A "90-Day Fiancee"
January 25, 2014

My High School Yearbook Threw Me Into A Mid-life Crisis 
February 4, 2014

The Art of Surviving A Break-Up
March 23, 2014

The Day My Third World Self Put My First World Self In Its Place 
June 9, 2014

When Helping Doesn't Help
(headline edited to "Was That Comment Because of My Race?")

July 24, 2014

What I Know About Marriage Helped Me Buy A Home
August 28, 2014

Why Dying at 75 Is Worth Considering
September 30, 2014

Marry Someone You Can Dance With

November 3, 2014

In Defense of the Stage Mother
(headline edited to "Aren't We All Stage Mothers?")
December 26, 2014


'My Big Fat Fabulous Life' and Lessons in Pursuing Your (Writing) Passion
(headline edited to "5 Important Life Lessons From My Big Fat Fabulous Life")
February 4, 2015

Life in Between
(headline edited to "Going to a Blog Conference When 
Your Blog is In Between")
March 16, 2015

How to Set Strong Boundaries for Your Blog
BlogHer Syndicated Post

April 10, 2015

Syndicated on


We're Not White and I Need to Keep it Real
(headline edited to "Black-ish Reminds Me That Non-White Parents Need to Keep it Real")

February 25, 2016 

My Son's Friends Are Afraid They'll Be Deported
April 11, 2016


September 30, 2014

October 15, 2014

November 7, 2014

January 27, 2015

The Truth About Romance When You're Making a Baby
(Original Title on Catharsis: Romance Is Relative)
April 13, 2015

What I Know For Sure About Motherhood
May 8, 2015

September 8, 2014

Love Magnified
March 3, 2015


Friends You Need to KeepSeptember 21, 2016


The Gift Of Nothing

October 16, 2014


I Was A 90-Day Fiancee
February 3, 2014

I've also guest-posted on these wonderful sites:

A Richer, More Colorful Life For the Color Blind
Reflections From A Redhead
September 2011

Yellow Brick Road 
October 10, 2011

Reflections From A Redhead
June 2014